Reading tons of articles won’t change much about your life. Only acting upon them will.

Why do we run this blog?

Or: Why you want to live a radically different life - your own

Kain and Leonhard

2/8/20244 min read

Why this blog will radically change your life

1. You are being fucked by your upbringing and it's no-ones fault

You are born and quickly get thrown into the world that doesn't really care if you are doing well as a child or living your potential. You look to the people around you for how to live they also don't know and can't teach you what’ll help you be a happy and healthy human. Let’s take a look at the most important influences.

Your school teachers are paid to teach you math, literature, science, politics and history. The things that make life rich and fulfilling are not taught in school: Relationships, health, wellbeing. How you can make a proper living for yourself is a side-topic at best. School deprives you of practical life-experience for more than a decade of your life and instead makes you listen to irrelevant info, top-down. This process makes you overly identified with your thoughts, being right or wrong and proving your worth to yourself by proving it to others, especially authority figures.

Your parents aren’t well-equipped to teach you either, because they started off in the same position as you or worse. Probably, they are also just stumbling through life. There is no certificate to make you a good parent. To make things worse, they are equally subject - or even victim - to the digital revolution and attention economy. They are as unequipped to deal with this omnipresent part of our lives as you are. Maybe even more so.

Your friends are similarly inexperienced as you. Maybe they can help you with the struggles you are going through because they might be struggling with the same things right now or a short while before. Sometimes just talking things through helps us along, but they can’t give you proper guidance.

If you search for information on the internet, your mind is flooded by shitty information. The web is overloaded and so are you. Seeking information doesn't solve the issue, it's a cause of your issues. Entertainment and social media convey totally unrealistic images and advice. The information you get easily is not the best information out there. The information you get is the one that is made by the people who are best at optimizing websites for search engines and marketing.

And the most important thing: Information isn't gonna change your life. Your personal transformation and ACTING DIFFERENTLY will change your life.

Getting useful perspectives and life advice is often an ordeal and hugely determined by luck. If you are not lucky enough to come across great people who can mentor you, you will likely stumble through most of your life following shitty advice, unhelpful beliefs and feeling stuck because you don't know or can't do what you truly want.

Luckily, you found this website. It's a compass pointing towards the life you want to create. Yes, there is information here but we keep it at a minimal quantity and with maximum quality. And there’s more to it: Our only wish is to make you ACT. Everything we do here is only about enabling you to ACT effectively upon what YOU need and want in life.
That's the most important thing because...

2. Society doesn’t want what’s best for you, it wants you to obey

We are all conditioned by the messy influences described above. You are taught how you should and shouldn’t behave - not who you are and what you want or don't want. And ultimately, you will accept and act according to these beliefs of should and shouldn't, only making minor adjustments every once and then.

Spend time on this site and it will break your own mental shackles and free you to act differently than ever before.

In the long-long-past of human history, obeying the socialized norms was useful to guarantee survival inside the tribe. Leaving the tribe was equal to a death sentence.

That’s why we are all so prone to follow societal norms – no matter how ridiculous they are. You should dress that way. You should work this way. You should believe this. We are being micromanaged and we obey it for no good reason. You won’t starve if someone doesn’t like your behavior or your opinion. That is gone now. But somehow, we still – on a deep, subconscious level – submit WAY TOO MUCH to this societal programming.

This site will readjust your conditioning and let you create the life that YOU TRULY WANT through acting in a sensible manner.

...If you are willing to actually ACT!

3. How to create your own life

“It is important that you get clear for yourself that your only access to impacting life is action. The world does not care what you intend, how committed you are, how you feel or what you think, and certainly it has no interest in what you want and don’t want. Take a look at life as it is lived and see for yourself that the world only moves for you when you act.”
-Werner Erhard

This is the site that will help you become freer every day.

It is an accumulation of the knowledge you have been deprived off.

It is a vault of practical advice on how to escape your mental prisons.

It is a compass on rediscovering your innate desires that you have been taught to suppress.

This website enables you to figure out what you truly want and DO IT.

You will feel the deep urge to live a radically different life from what you have seen and thought previously.

It is about your TRANSFORMATION and not more complex and meaningless Information.

This website is your very best friend/resource in this pursuit of acting to create a different life.

About us:

We, Kain and Leo, are living a quitters life. We have chosen to go our own way and want to help you find yours. If you want help on your journey, contact us start@quitters.life and put “I’M IN, I WANT TO COMMIT” at the top of your message.

And honestly, we are not interested in you singing up/writing us personally if you are not committed to creating a different life.